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April 2002
I recently read a
quote from Jo Giese, author of A Woman's Path, which reads "When we
ask a person 'What do you do?,' we're really asking, Who are you?"
My intention is for my coaching work, which is of course what I do,
to always honestly reflect and answer the question "Who am I?" This
entails a level of openness, truth, and self-knowledge that
challenges me to the same high standard that my clients meet in our
work together. Over the years, I have observed the complexity and
depth of my clients evolve as I have evolved as a person and a
professional. Rather than being intimidating, this phenomenon is one
that keeps me sharp, aware, and fascinated with my chosen field of
work. I regard every client interaction as a gift, and appreciate so
much the synergy that you and I create together in our work.
Letting Sharon show up in our coaching work is an on-going intention
of mine. I'm by nature rather shy, and much prefer the focus to be
on anyone but myself. But I'm learning that my best coaching comes
when I am truly myself, and not concerned so much about what I'm
doing, as who I am in our calls together. I've also learned that by
stepping back and observing what I do each day, even those small
trivial things, I can see who I am. Where I invest my time, the
actions I take, the words I use, the company I choose...these all
reflect who I really am. Sometimes there is a disconnect for me
between my actions and who I think I am (or want to be), and then I
know that I have some work to do on myself.
How does what you do reflect who you are? Who shows up in your
workplace each day? Would those you relate to at home recognize you
at work, or visa versa? Where is there a gap between what you do and
who you are? Why? These are questions I hope you will join me in
exploring from time to time.
Have a wonderful month as we welcome Spring!
Sharon
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