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December 2005
Last month I spent
four days at the International Coach Federation 10th annual
conference in San Jose, California. It was an interesting and
informative time that gave me the opportunity to learn some new
skills and interact with my coaching colleagues from around the
world. I managed to get some quiet time alone (not an easy task when
surrounded by 1,750 coaches, surely some of the most relational
beings on the planet). I enjoyed time with old friends, and met some
new friends, too. I was challenged in my thinking by the keynote
speakers, workshop presenters, and my fellow coaches (and I'll be
sharing some of my thinking about my business and professional
growth with you early in 2006).
A real treat was to hear Dr. Rachael Naomi Remen, the author of
Kitchen Table Wisdom and My Grandfather's Blessings. Even from my
seat in the back of the auditorium, I felt her peaceful presence and
her beautiful spirit. She spoke about attaining satisfaction in our
lives through serving others. We are transformed by our service to
others. According to Dr. Remen, the message of service is "your life
matters," referring to those we serve. Service also brings richness
and meaning to our own lives.
Dr. Remen reminded us that we cannot serve on empty; it is our
responsibility to fill ourselves up. My observation of my own life
affirms that truth. When I take care of myself spiritually,
emotionally, intellectually, and physically, then I feel equipped to
serve others in powerful ways. Too often, especially and ironically
during the holidays, I neglect to fill myself up. In putting others
first, they often end up being cheated out of all I could really
offer them, as I struggle to keep pace with the demands of work,
home, family, friends, and community commitments. We all end up
being less than satisfied. My commitment to you this holiday season
is to fill myself up in ways that nurture and enrich me, so that I
may better serve you in the days and months ahead.
I hope that you, and those you serve in both your personal and
professional world, have a blessed holiday season.
Sharon
Sharon Keys Seal