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February 2006
A fabulous quote has
been right in front of me all month (on the January page of my 2006
Heron Dance wall calendar) that beautifully captures how I am
looking at life and work these days. It is from Phil Cousineau,
writer and poet, and it says "Life is not a problem to be solved,
but a mystery to be lived." I've been thinking this month about the
wisdom in those words, and what they mean for me.
Being a pretty good
problem solver, I tend to look at challenges strategically. It is
almost automatic to assess strengths and weaknesses, assets and
liabilities, pros and cons. This serves me well in my work as a
coach. It is exciting to support you in generating perspectives on,
and often solutions to, your workplace problems. It's a part of my
job that I truly enjoy. And, there are myriad problems in running a
business, or leading a team, or implementing a change. It would be
negligent of us to ignore them. But there are also other ways I look
at our work together.
Approaching life as a
mystery to be lived brings a whole new lens to my work. It forces me
to pull back, up out of the weeds, and take a different view. I put
down my tools for a while, and just observe. I can relish the
complexity, embrace the unknown. It is sometimes refreshing to cease
laboring to find all the answers, especially that ever-elusive one
"right" answer. When I can let go of trying to wrestle life (or
work) to the ground, I can just step into it with wonder and awe.
For me, this brings a new attitude to my work. Instead of only
seeing what seems to need fixing or solving, which can keep me so
narrowly focused, I can open up to incredible possibilities and
myriad new vistas.
Living life as a
mystery demands that we approach it with open minds, eyes, and
hearts. This is what I desire to bring to my coaching relationship
with you. Thank you for the privilege of serving you on many levels,
from the mundane to the mysterious.
Sharon
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